Download or read book The Best Friend You'll Ever Have written by Bernard Sloan and published by Crown Publishing Group (NY). This book was released on 1980 with total page 232 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In a literature rife with unforgettable Jewish mothers, no reader has ever met the likes of Dora Sloan. Coming from a class that has honed selflessness to a fine craft, Mrs. Sloan elevates selfishness to high art. Convinced that her son's twenty years of happy marriage to a Protestant are only a passing aberration, she sits in Arizona, an implacable figure amid an explosion of inlaid woods, gold claws, candy dishes, artificial flowers, colossal lamps with flouncy shades, and a Grand Rapids interpretation of the bedroom set in which Marie Antoinette had laid her head before it was summoned elsewhere. When her son finds Dora gravely ill he brings her to his home in Larchmont, New York, and Nana is ensconced in the room they have done over for her. ("Simply beautiful," she croons, when she sees it. "Brown, like a coffin.") So the travail of the Sloan family begins. Cleverly timed maneuvers trap her daughter-in-law, undermining her efforts as an independent working woman. With the TV placed in Nana's room, there are no more programs for the grandsons who, she expects, will fight over who takes Grandma for a walk. Even with the help of the companion, Spiegelstrauss, a German Mary Poppins who delights in breaking the china, the Sloan domicile clearly becomes a ship about to sink. While Dora Sloan is certainly unique, the situation Bernard Sloan depicts in this extraordinarily moving book is not. With courage and with total honesty, the author has explored generational problems that most Americans eventually have to face. Sloan has illuminated the tragedy of this unforgettable character as well as the unwitting humor, and in so doing, he has achieved a work that may well alter every reader's personal perspective.