Download or read book Safety for Stalking Victims written by Lyn Bates and published by iUniverse. This book was released on 2001-06-26 with total page 236 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Stalking is a serious crime that disproportionately affects and endangers women. The National Institute of Justice says one in every 12 women and one in every 20 men will be stalked in their lifetimes. Some stalkers make phone calls, send messages, or deliver "gifts." Some follow their victims home, vandalize property, make threats, or kill pets. Some stalkers even attempt rape, kidnapping, or murder. And some succeed. Being the target of an obsessed person is a frightening experience. But it isn't necessary to live in fear. Learning how to live safely is the key. Topics include: Who stalks, who is stalked, and why Evaluating the seriousness of the situation Replacing terror with sensible precautions Restraining ordersgood or bad? Disappearingwhy, when and how Protecting your children Self-defensewhat works, what doesnt Safety on a budget Maintaining your privacy Strategies that don't work Helpful web sites and organizations Using scenarios based on real stalking cases, this book overflows with detailed, practical strategies to put you in control of your situation, and let you break the cycle of terror. Mistakes by the legal system, employers, or even family members can make the situation worse. If you work with stalking victims, or are concerned about one, you need this information, too.